As a kid I was someone who would follow trends, having the current skirt, dungarees and MC Hammer suit and had a pair of Kickers and observing myself, and this is from a video I did about Following trends saying that I don't, but then recently in some new clothes I have purchased realised I do.
It has been subconsciously as was unaware of this habit but don't buy items just because they are trendy it has to suit me at the same time. I don't dress to feel current but to feel good and enjoy what I wear. I don't mind wearing the same clothes on consecutive days, and putting together looks that I like to see if they suit me or not. If it raises your self esteem then wear it but if it doesn't then fear not, it just not your style and that is okay.
Following trends can cause a lot of pressure because often we use fashion to fit in, and worry about being different and in the 90's I was very much heavy metal/tom boy, and so you'd see me in DM's with Jodhpurs and long baggy T-Shirt. I would wear Denim on Denim and got into waistcoats and now I do like the oversized clothes look. I do write a fashion blog called Carrie Versatile fashion https://carriesversatilefashion.com/
I have been influenced which knowing about life now being my 40's we all do and that is okay but I do like to be different in what I wear too If we were all the same the world would be a boring place and I do like those who are different and have their own unique style, example: Boy George, Kylie Minogue, Victoria Beckham and my music Icon, Cyndi Lauper.
Then their is surgery and getting bigger lips, bigger boobs, younger looking skin and permanent make up, and yes I have been thinking about it, as I hated having big boobs and being short and having straight hair. Now though for the first time in my life I have been acceptive and having a heart operation and mental health issues, I like how I look, and that is taken a lot for me to say that.
Part of me can still be self critical, but having fun in what I wear has helped and I use Pinterest to help me plan my wardrobe. A lot of it is boredom I get sick of seeing the same face, same clothes etc, so I like to change and look different, and so will dye my hair and make sure it is trimmed and easy to wash and dry. I love patterned socks, and wearing baseball caps and hats, and love be able to mix 'n' match.
Clothes aren't what makes us or trends, it is a necessity and so shouldn't dictate but be creative and finding your own style that makes you happy and feel good about ourselves.
So create a good capsule wardrobe can really make a difference and watch trends adding your own style to it.
Check these boards I have created on Pinterest:
https://www.pinterest.co.uk/thetypicalLondongal/yearly-fashion-look-book/
https://www.pinterest.co.uk/thetypicalLondongal/fashion-vision-for-2023/
Many thanks for reading,
Carrie X
