Yes I am having a good sort out thinking of ways to up my organisation and feel good about myself and loving the clothes I wear, my body and mind. There was a time I would hide myself because of feeling ugly and overweight and just criticising everything I did and who I was.
I felt that I wasn't good at anything and would stay in bed all day. It is good to relax and loved this Christmas, because I could get up later than normal and went for a Christmas walk and just allowed the day to just do what I wanted and not what I have to do.
Having a day that is slow and a proper day of just taking it easy. I got into my Christmas pjs, with my son who had his on and so good to recharge the body.
Being negative about myself became draining and so I knew I had to do something about it and I had to get out of bed and not waste another day. So I got organised and one trait I have is buying for comfort and how I got into debt, not just on clothes but love a notebook and on laptop that was temperamental and not even using half of what I own. I felt like I was missing out and is like comfort eating, but at the same time I do like clothes and restyling and trying different images to have fun with clothes.
I like to change my image as I do get bored and re-evaluate what I own, what gives me joy, following the Kon Marie method and like a hair cut and I want to wear more dresses and be a bit more feminine and tailored.
I believe that what you own should grow with you and what you currently have that has a good valid reason to be in your life and not just stuff, because we feel that having a hundred jumpers is going to replace our feelings of south loath and find you look hideous and it stays in the wardrobe or another notebook sitting on your desk doing nothing.
Use what you have, a moto I am following and has been a good moto, as it has stopped me spending on shower gels as I have had problems with my skin and got some which I am no longer going to use so going to give them away.
It is good to recycle and makes me feel good in not adding to landfill and there are in many supermarket car parks have recycling bins and used these to recycle my sons shoes that no longer fit him and have done this my own shoes and clothes.
So being organised and a declutter can do wonders with your confidence and re-invent yourself if you are not feeling good about yourself and be fussy so you get more for your money and nothing goes to waste which can affect your confidence and how you feel about yourself.
Many thanks for reading,
Carrie X
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