Life is yours so live it/Be your own date

Hello and welcome! I have been doing a 30 day challenge to write a blog a day for one of my Wordpress posts and today was the final day of that challenge and so if you want to read them then go to:

https://everyonecanbuildacastle.com 

In this blog post I am writing about Life is yours so live it and Be your own date.

So, tomorrow I am taking myself out and going to do a few errands and filming tomorrow for a couple of vlogs and then scheduling some Youtube videos for the week ahead and scheduling some blogs and work on my books.

I like having a whole day to do what I want and being the first week of the UK School summer holidays it is well needed. 

It also means tonight I don't have go to bed early and stay up a bit longer as I am looking after my son all week so it is good to have a free day and I am also gonna fit in a home workout and do more walking to up my steps again. 

With a child of 7 this is not always easy so when I can I use the days I have free to have "Me Time" and so pick a day with no kids and explore and I may even read my book if not raining out too or may have a coffee in a coffee shop and do a bit of work out doors for a change too. 

Life is about enjoying life, and errands don't have to be boring, so have a date with yourself and enjoy.

Many thanks for reading, 

Carrie X  

Feeling like you don't belong/Be a loner/How I overcame these feelings

Hello anc welcome! This blog site is all about building confidence and as kid to an adult often felt like I didn't belong anywhere and felt this throughout my life and now I am in a place where I do and its blog writing and publishing books that have helped. I have always loved writing and is my passion. 

At school when I first started I would sit on a bench and watch the others kids having a good time and I would sit there hoping that someone would speak to me but didn't and had to work hard to build friends. I was never comfortable in that environment and I feel the problem was, was that you were to learn and that was it. 

Schools now encourage kid interaction and building good relationships with other kids as school does play a part in your life and I never liked being there. 

How I overcame this was when I began working and it was through work that made me feel important and not just someone who can print documents off or just another employee. 

I felt that I fitted in better and that it was an environment I needed and going to dancing school on Saturdays and did some casual work at first working at Fulham Football club, it all added up and then discovered the blog world and as they say the rest is history. 

I had found my niche and that is what is important what inspires you and builds you. You have to work on yourself in order to meet new people in your life. 

Did you know the Singer Celine Dion took 4 years out of her career to change image and to learned English to help expand her career as an artist and performer and it worked. I do take regular breaks from the blog world but I always come back and the good thing noone needs to know I have been aways its I do get burn out and often just need that time to reflect and to recharge.

Confidence is building your self inside an out not listening to critics or allowing them to take over but thrive with each Critism.

Many thanks for reading, 

Carrie X