Feeling self Conscious during the summer

I get so worried over the summer when it comes to the way I look and feel, and I wrote a blog a long time ago about having bikini body, if I find it I will link it. I can't wear a dress without shaving my legs first and my armpits. I hate having body hair. The only place I like it, is when its on my head and so invest a lot of money on razors, and always wear flip flops because of hair growth on my feet and because I don't always paint my nails. 

I don't wear a bikini, but a swimming costume and with pair of cycling shorts because of body hair. If I could get it done I would have have laser treatment to get rid of my body hair and not have to worry about it. 

I have used fake tan before now, but it always looked patchy, and so I do try to spend time in the sun, but I have never been good with heat, and become hot and bothered. Not that I don't like summer, I do, as it like it when it gets dark later in the day. It does feel you have more of a day, yet it is always a battle of what to wear, because of feeling self conscious. 

My go to items are leggins and I do own some pairs of shorts but not a lot. I tend to wear these indoors and not outside, a lot. I would love to look good in a bikini, and have more swim wear. I remember as a kid when we would go to Menorca and many of the women we travelled with, would go topless, and admired this, as the woman's body shouldn't be nothing to hide, as we carry babies in ours and not something we should take for granted. I have had to work a lot with being body confident and accepting what I have.

For me it is about taking one step at a time, and going to invest in creating a more happiness with myself and find items that are flattering, and not feel bad in doing so. Listening to a lot of Life Coaches like Mel Robbins, Grant Cardone and Tony Robbins, to invest in myself and that is to be more summer confident. How about you do you feel the same. 

Please leave a comment below, and lets support each other, as often just that alone can help how we feel about ourselves and spend time in working on appearance, and what is going to make you happy. 

Many thanks for reading, 

Carrie X